Bondage scenario

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Back in New York City in the 90s, a natural interest in bondage, toys, and domination and submission landed me a sweet job as a professional dominatrix, and after years of working in a dungeon think the Red Room in Fifty Shades you could say I earned the equivalent of a PhD bondage scenario BDSM.

And now, friends, thanks to the wonders of modern technology, I am here to share my knowledge with you. First of all, BDSM means many things to many people. If there is one sexual family that welcomes all cummers, this is it. The problem, of course, is that Fifty Shades is a terrible representation of the lifestyle and gives people some really shady ideas about how this game should work.

Bondage scenario

The truth is that under the juicy, hot latex and leather, BDSM is about trust and communication. Or maybe you like it both ways. In a roleplay scenario, begging, pleading, and saying no is often just part of bondage scenario fun. The point of a safe word is to have a code word that will shut things down bondage scenario they get too weird, because sometimes they do. Last, but not least, it can be tempting to have a few drinks before a play session to loosen up and get in the mood, but this is NOT a good idea.

Alcohol can impair your senses and lead to poor decision making on both sides. BDSM is all about the props and the play. One of the most erotic things that you can do to your partner is taking away their sense of sight. You can kiss, caress, tease, and tempt them any way you like, and expect each touch to be amplified by the anticipation of what comes next.

You can use almost anything as a blindfold—a scarf, necktie, or a piece of clothing—but investing in a well-constructed, beautiful blindfold will help to set the mood. For more intense, advanced sensory deprivation, some folks prefer hoods that cover the entire head the infamous gimp hood. The important thing is that it fits well and is comfortable. Being restrained is fantastic for bondage scenario deprivation play, but you may want to start with just a blindfold. Step 1: Find the blindfold that best suits your style.

I personally love the look, smell, and feel of leather, which makes for absolute blackout darkness. Adjustable Blindfold. See Price. Heysta 2 Pieces Satin Mask. Skull and Bones Studded Eye Mask. Spandex Hood with Blindfold and Mouth Hole. Step 2: Now is a good time to add any restraints you may want to use to keep your sub in position. Bondage scenario the blindfold over their eyes and secure it, making any necessary adjustments. If using a hood, make sure they can breathe easily. Step 3: Bring out toys, one by one, and talk to your sub about what you are going to do to them next.

This is a perfect time to indulge in sensory play more on that later using candle wax, ice cubes, vibrators, and other props. Step 4: Be creative, remember that all the senses are heightened when deprived of sight. Use sounds and smells to add to the excitement and use verbal communication to add to the suspense. Use the element of surprise by promising pain and delivering pleasure.

Being unseen strips away self-consciousness, and without inhibition you might find the boldness and freedom to act out your wildest fantasies. Pro Tip: You can use blindfolding in combination with any of the other toys and techniques on this list. Have fun with blindfolds and use the opportunity to introduce temperatures, tastes, and sensations. Narrating what you are going to do next is a tantalizing way to build the pressure as you go along. At the beginning, couples testing the waters of domination and submission may feel shy or even embarrassed.

Much like visiting an all-you-can eat buffet for the third time in a week, it might just be easier if you pretend to be someone else. You can use costuming and props to get into character, but masquerade masks are a super-sexy, easy place to start. Masks call attention to the eyes and mouth, and leave face holes open for long, meaningful glances, kissing and oh-so much more. Meanwhile, just enough of the face is disguised to give the wearer the permission to say and do things they might be too shy to do otherwise.

This is the main reason why we role play. Step 1: Decide beforehand which mask is for the dominant partner and which is for the submissive one. If you are interested in switching roles, use a coin toss to make it random. These are lightweight, classic, and can easily be worn to a costume party. Fetish fantasy Masquerade Mask and Ball Gag. Anna Decal Bondage scenario. Set the scene by discussing who you are, where you are, and why you are there together.

Step 3: Leave the room, with one partner remaining inside. Take a few minutes to rehearse what you are going to say and to collect any props you need. Step 4: Put on your mask, make your grand entrance, and get started. Let the scene flow naturally and try to stay in character. And a giggle from a sub can add sweet punishment to the scene. Usually, you drop the act once everyone cums. While your beloved wife or husband would never, ever call you a dirty little whore and demand that you lick their asshole, your Master or Mistress will do it without batting a masked eye.

This is the beauty of roleplay— when you open yourself up to being someone else, you are free from all the bullshit of being yourself. Forget about dirty dishes, bills to be paid, and boring day-to-day stress. Pro Tip: Bone up on sexy scenarios by reading erotic stories online bondage scenario watch some 50 Shades if you must. Also, much like masks, wearing fetish clothing sets the mood and helps you get into character. Not to judge, but a woman in latex holding a riding crop is going to get you hard a lot faster than if she were wearing sweatpants and a T-shirt.

There are smells, shapes, and sensations attached to the clothing used in BDSM that trigger a physical reaction based on memory. Some of these accessories are practical, with metal D-rings for attaching leashes, clamps, and gear to, but mostly they visually enhance your body and al that it is playtime. Decide what stimulates your play the most— latex, leather, chains, or whatever—and go from there.

Latex is my favorite for its versatility, sensuality, and aesthetic. Front Zip Latex Tank Top. Portia Sleek Mini Dress. Step 2: Apply a water-based lubricant lightly or use talcum powder or something similar to the inside surfaces of the piece. Step 3: Lightly apply a little powder or lube to your body, and then slowly, carefully begin to slide it on. This is often easier with assistance and will require a little care and patience. Forcing latex clothing or using oil-based lube can cause it to tear. Step 4: Whether the sub or domme is wearing the latex, create a roleplay scenario where the other partner polishes the garment while it is worn.

Use a product deed for polishing PVC. This is both very sensual and will help your latex look its best for longer. Once the fun is over and the latex is off, clean it by swishing it in the sink or bathtub with a dash of dishwashing soap.

Dry it thoroughly. Step 6: Apply powder to the inside surface of the garment before storing, and store it away from metals, light, and heat. The first time I wore latex, I felt like a queen—a sexy, dominant queen worthy of worship. Pro Tip: Latex garments are amazing for all bodies, but particularly on women. The material molds the body, like a corset, making your hips and tits look fantastic and holding everything in place.

Latex and leather are often expensive items, so protect your investment by cleaning and caring for it between play sessions. Better yet, make your sub do the dirty work of cleaning up and caring for your gear bondage scenario on and off. Hand spanking is one of the most fundamental skills to master in BDSM.

If you want to be a legendary spanker, first you need to forget everything you think you know about spanking.

Bondage scenario

Sexy spanking is both a punishment and a reward. Is that confusing? You bet your red-hot ass it is. People that love to be spanked and to give spankings understand that a good spanking is equal parts pleasure and pain. A spanking often starts with a threat that is actually a promise. Step 1: Remove all rings, bracelets, and watches. Decide if this is going to be a short or long spanking and choose your position based on this. Shorter spankings are best given bondage scenario the knee, and longer spankings are usually better bent over a bed or piece of furniture for support. Have something on hand to deliver a soft, soothing sensation to counteract the spanking:.

Round Pole Performance Feather. Frisky Feather Duster. Rivet Paddle. Step 2: Before you begin spanking, expose the ass and touch it lightly, stroking and teasing.

Bondage scenario

Feather toys can help deliver light stimulation. Step 3: Begin with a couple of light spanks from a slightly cupped hand. Alternated these with gentle strokes. This warms up nerves and the skin surface— making the spankee want more. Never start a spanking hard, always warm the skin up and create anticipation. Step 4: Experiment with using different parts of the hand- the fingertips, held flat, can deliver stingy, tingling spanks, while a cupped hand is dramatically loud but gentle.

A full, flat hand gives the most painful spank of all, but will also leave your hand smarting. Step 5: Let your sub participate in bondage scenario action by thanking you for each spank or counting as you go. Pay attention to the color of their ass-skin and move around to different parts of their ass to keep sensations fresh.

Pro Tip: Long spankings are best if you use a rhythm and then vary the tempo as your sub begins to anticipate spanks. Over the knee spankings for men can be extra sexy if their hard cock is pressing against you—it gives you another reason to punish or reward them. Warning: BDSM is addictive. The flogger is your new best friend. Invest in the highest-quality flogger you bondage scenario afford. You want soft leather and solid construction that you can use for years to come. Practice your aim a little on a couch cushion or even your own leg to get a feel for your new toy.

One note of caution, please educate yourself on the exact location of the kidneys and make sure that you never spank or flog anyone in the kidney area. Step 1: Choose a worthy tool. I love this glass-handled flogger for its weight and multitasking potential. This one is fun cumming and going: a flogger on one end and a glass handle on the other for teasing, massaging, or penetrating a partner.

Bondage scenario

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